Saturday, September 1, 2007

Are you thinking TOO MUCH about your relationship?




SO, what's on your mind?
How much time do you spend thinking about your relationship? Well, since you may read this before you have a chance to tell me, I think I may have a good guess. TOO MUCH.

Of course your lover boy will be part of your daily life..but the new (post drama) lesson I learned is the less you worry about it, the better it is. Focus on what you think is important in your life and go for it (career, hobby, etc). Discuss your busy week with your signif. other before you spend time worrying. Set quality time aside to really be with each other and pay attention to each other. I am not saying stop the spontaneity, I am saying you will both be more inclined to surprise each other without the rough waters. Don't let unnecessary relationship worries clog your open mind. If you are wondering what you need to be able to harvest your growing relationship...see my recent blog on Forever Relationship Ingredients.

1 comments:

DatingTales said...

Depends on the day. There are days when I don't think enough, but then days where I let things fester. Normally, those are the times things go a little haywire on the home front.